Here’s the rules for our parties, please have a read through and share with your partners:

 

1. Number one rule – don’t be a dick! Read the room, don’t be pushy, check in regularly. Things can change and that is ok. 

 

2. Closely followed by no means no, or even better yes means yes! Consent is sexy, make sure you have it before joining in. And remember it can be revoked at any time. Communicate clearly to remove any doubt.

 

3. You are under no obligation at any time, if you just want to come along and soak up the atmosphere, or chat to likeminded people then that is perfectly fine. Equally if you find yourself in a situation where you are not entirely comfortable, it is ok to end it.

 

4. Make sure you know and follow your own rules as a couple. Communication is key. Check in regularly.

 

5. Safe sex! This is a safe sex event, please use the non-Latex condoms that are provided, it is expected that these must be worn to ensure the safety and well-being for all casual sexual encounters.

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6. Dress to impress, feel free to bring different things to change into during the evening, sometimes a robe is very handy! 

 

7. Bubbles are provided on arrival, and non-alcoholic drinks are available all night, BYO other drinks. Be careful with the alcohol, consent gets a bit blurry when you are too drunk.

 

8. If you have paid as a couple, you must arrive and leave as a couple, no exceptions.

 

9. There is one private room, this room is for people that would like a more intimate setting, all other rooms are for your viewing pleasure, if you want exclusive play that’s fine, you can make it clear that no one should join you on the bed.

 

10. No drugs before or during the party.

 

11. Smoking/vaping outside only. There are mints on the table for after…

 

12. The kitchen and lounge are play free break out zones

 

13. Put condoms and other rubbish in the bins provided please, they aren’t much fun to clean up the next day!

 

14. There are some fun things to try in the kink zone and BDSM dungeon, have a play around, try something new. Just remember to take it easy if it’s your first time with that kind of play and check in regularly with your partner. There's toy cleaner available if needed.

 

15. Please be mindful of others that may want to play, the rooms are for all to enjoy.

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16. Single guys at our exclusive events, this is not a free for all, this is a sex event for couples, you must get to know the couples to be invited in, please make an effort to talk and meet both half of the couples.

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17. Please be quiet when watching scenes, it can be off putting to those involved with people standing around laughing and talking about their golf swing, respect the space.

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18. We use the traffic light system as our house safe word system.

Green means "yes I love it",

Orange means "slow down / pause i need a breather"

Red means "Stop now!"

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19. Have fun!